In 2018 we traveled along the West Coast from San Fransisco, CA to North Vancouver, BC, Canada on a family trip. One of the many stops along the way was Capilano Suspension Bridge Park in Vancouver. The bridge is 450 feet long and hangs 230 feet above the Capilano River. It is an awe inspiring sight and leads visitors from the parking area across to a series of elevated suspension bridges linked between eight 30 ton, 250 year old Douglas-firs. It is definitely a bird’s eye view of a thriving West Coast rainforest.
There were many visitors that were not prepared for the awe of such amazing engineering and would fall to the ground with wobbly knees. Others braved the crossing with fear and trepidation as the bridge swayed with each footstep from the many visitors spread across its length. The sounds of the river below gave a sense of rush, but each step across the bridge was deliberate and slow while following the leader.
This bridge reminds me of the connection from one place to another and how important those crossings can be. We see this in relationships with others and how we must build bridges to connect with them in a meaningful way. To truly appreciate, understand, love, and recognize differences is a sort of bridge building exercise. The majesty of a bridge, whether big or small, is not lost on me in that some crossings can be more difficult than others. As we go into our day, lets explore ways we can build bridges and connect with each other, even when it feels difficult, hard or nearly impossible.
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Source: Capilano Suspension Bridge Park for facts and details about the park and bridge.